Showing posts with label robert pattinson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label robert pattinson. Show all posts

Saturday, December 27, 2014

How Intentionally Harmful is the Tabloid, Hollywood Life (and other tabloids), to Twilight's Various Fanbases?

Robert Pattinson's Rover Smear was
Intentionally Career-Hindering
not Entertaining.
Ever Re-Unite?
This is up here just for
heartbroken fans.

Yes, this starts out MEAN and LONG because the original post had to be updated a couple of times due to HATERS - but, it was my responding to haters that made me realize the NEW current smear campaign going on. If you stick it out, you might be surprised what comes out of this. I've marked for you where the lightbulb came on.

This is really funny... I didn't realize what was going on with Robert Pattinson's Rover Smear UNTIL Hollywood Life cut me off in their comments at the beginning of it; and I didn't realize that there was a BRAND NEW smear happening UNTIL they cut me off this time again.

Thank you Hollywood Life!!!

Now, If I could JUST get fans to CARE about it... LoL!
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Okay, this post has been up for less than an hour and I've already received three hate emails. It never ceases to amaze me what cowards some 'fans' are. You're so willing to bombard the boards with your hate - but you can't express it in a blog's comments? Thanks for taking the time to FIND my email and send me such hateful BULLSH*T!!!

These collected articles and comments (below) were just the tip of the iceberg. I'm SO SICK of being accused of 'hating on fans'. It just goes to show you how much you do NOT pay attention.

So I guess I'll get started on my bombardment campaign against Stephenie Meyer and EL James' upcoming bs.

Cya's all laters.

TA! ;)
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I'm adding this up here after the fact, because believe it or not - I'm still getting emails from (mostly) haters, but also a couple normal-sounding fans, now. (But now it's the day after and emails have almost ceased - from this post, anyway. Thank you.)

I know, it's kind of funny... It's almost like you all decided that you need to shut up because I figured something out while ranting at you, LoL! Do you have any idea how incredibly frustrating the majority of you fangirlz are to me? It's Okay, all I can do is giggle about it, now. :)

I've heard this FOUR times in the past two hours... What do you mean by 'Twilight's various fanbases'? Many 'robsessed' fans, especially - do not consider themselves to be a part of The Twilight Fansbase AT ALL. For instance, did you KNOW that many of these girls - both young and older - are ANTI-Twilight fans AND it is where the majority of Kristen-haters come from?

There is no other movie that Robert Pattinson has done that would have caused all this hate. I mean, SURE the boy is BEAUTIFUL - but he's not that obsessively captivating in his own right. Certainly not more than Travis Fimmel or Leo DiCaprio. (Don't take this the wrong way, *I* love Robert Pattinson's acting (I have nothing but glowing reviews for ALL the Twilight actors & actresses in this post); but he's not quite perfect at it, yet. This is my movie review of Cosmopolis - NINE out of Ten Stars!! IF you want to see what a NON-robsessed semi-normal fan of Rob's has to say about his acting.)

Do NOT tell me that I am not a fan of Robert's or Kristen's OR their REAL fans who are spread out among ALL - Twilight - Robsessed - Robsten - Krisbian fanbases!!

And btw, robsessed fans... If you LOVE Robert so much; WHY do you continue to celebrate all the massive paparazzi image captures of him that you KNOW he despises? Some fans you are...

LB Posted at 12:04 AM on December 24, 2014  
@Holidays He is doing no such thing–never, not once. He has said not one word about his relationship, nor has he ever posed for paparazzi pictures. It’s not the man’s fault if his picture gets taken when he’s out in public. His picture is ALWAYS taken, either by fans or paparazzi. His only way to avoid that would be to hide inside 24 hours a day, and no one should have to do that.

I also included some suggestions at the end JUST in case the tabloids need something VALID to talk about Kristen Stewart in the same article as Robert Pattinson and FKA Twigs these days. Yeah, it COULD be done without stirring up HATE!!! Here's one:

Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart,
 
Who Have Remained Friends
Since Breaking Up in May 2013 - Attend Hollywood Film Awards;
While Once Again, Putting on a United Front to Avoid Each Other
in order to Eliminate Paparazzi Money-Making Images of them
together and Keep Tabloid Speculation about them to a Minimum

LIGHTBULB ON!!!

Honestly, if they had put on a show for the papz & tabloids; fans probably wouldn't be seeing all these ridiculous rumor-lies going on now. It's like Robert's Rover Smear...

If they won't cooperate to help make paparazzi & tabloids money; then they will find their own career-hindering ways to make money off of them and 'teach them a lesson'. Tabloids have to find a way to make money off of them WHEN their names ‘naturally’ come up in the news – like awards shows or FKA Twigs being in the picture, now. But, Robert was being an *ss to the paparazzi toward the beginning of Twigs’ tour; so they probably decided to photo-bomb his relationship like the jerks they are – ALONG with telling all these dumb stories to go along with them. And aren’t they extra good at it…

Kristen p*ssed them off at the HFA, too; and they get to EASILY drag her through the mud again while dragging Tahliah through it with her. BRILLIANT!! I mean, does anyone here REALLY believe that Kristen Stewart told anyone 'out loud' at a party that FKA Twigs was 'FUGLY'?! WHO is trying to convince us of that bs and WHY would they do it?!!

This would be the FIFTH major tabloid smear (at least, with smaller ones in between that sort of connect them all) campaign against one or the other of them since the 'cheating' scandal - which IS pretty much collectively-debunked by clear-thinking fans below.

#1 Twisting the 'Cheating' Scandal - they were both hated by the tabloids and paparazzi to begin with because they have never willingly contributed to their 'livelihoods' outside of The Twilight Saga. PLUS, those damn kids refused to WALK DOWN THE RED CARPET together and/or pose together at Cannes at EITHER of their movie premieres mere weeks before the 'cheating' scandal happened. The papz & rags have ALWAYS been poor sports about not getting the money-making images they want out of them.
#2 Jan. 2013 'Trial Separation' Lies - Kristen STILL refused to walk up that damn red carpet with Robert so the papz could get some good Hollywood 'couple' pics of them together all decked out at the Golden Globes
#3 Oct 2013 - Feb. 2014 'Reuniting' Lies - After neither of them attended a couple papz-promotional red-carpet events that they usually did. They even won an award at one of them; SHAME on them for not showing up!
#4 Robert's Rover Smear after he p*ssed them off at Cannes.
#5 Now this one after they attended the Hollywood Film Awards and didn’t put on a show for them. (Remember Ian & Nina's after-breakup kiss at one of the awards shows last year? Awww... If only Rob & Kris would have been so generous.)

Is anyone else starting to notice a pattern?!!
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I'll start this off with a few 'sensible' comments. Perhaps these will make this easier for you to read:

@ JUju Posted at 3:27 AM on December 25, 2014
Obviously, no-one is blabbing. HWLife just has to come up with a new story or two every day, so they make stuff up. We know it. They know we know it. It’s just a game to keep us commenting.

@ Jainj. Posted at 3:31 AM on December 26, 2014  
Have sex? Are you kidding? They had one kiss, as the beginning of the afternoon, and then never another . According to the paps, they spent most of the afternoon driving around talking, and about seven minutes standing on the sidewalk on a busy residential street in the Hollyiwood hills, with Rupert’s arms around Kristen. She didn’t even hug him back. She kept her face turned away the whole time so he couldn’t kiss her again. That was IT! Have sex, my foot!. The tabs called it cheating, they called it an affair, they called it infidelity, to snooker you into thinking that little episode was the sex scandal of the century and get you to buy magazines and give them hits. And like  an idiot, you did.

Oh yeah, all tabloids do this stuff... Maybe you're someone who believes that these articles (listed below) were actually meant to bring GOOD CHEER to fans for Christmas.

Actually, I'm pretty happy with how this post turned out. With the comments collected at the end, FANS themselves, do a really good job of debunking just about every dumb conspiracy theory that anyone - even the tabloids - have come up with, ha! So, you don't have to believe ME anymore. :)

Why are all these tabloid rumor-lies wrong? Because it’s been over two and a half YEARS and the tabloids are still attacking Kristen Stewart, especially. Honestly, EVEN IF she had ACTUALLY had a REAL, extended affair with Rupert Sanders – these assaults should have STOPPED a long damn time ago. Fans have been dealing with them for LONGER than Tiger Woods and Arnold Schwarzenegger’s REAL and MULTIPLE adulterous offenses COMBINED.

Kristen didn’t deserve all the hate back then – and neither does Robert (nor Twigs) deserve the combined HATE of fans, now. The tabloids have NO RIGHT to continue harassing these two professional actors and their fans like they do.

Freedom of Speech and Freedom of the Press were meant to provide transparency in order to PROTECT the TRUTH about absolutely everything – not LIE to people (especially YOUNG fans) in order to LOWER their quality of life for ILLEGAL profits.

Not ONE of you has a good reason
to not kiss and make up
!!
)*(

SIGN THE PETITION
 for Hollywood Tabloids & Paparazzi to Reform Their
Own Well-Protected Industry of Celebrity Mistreatment or

BRAINSTORM to figure out something else that WILL WORK

Before any of you read any further... I respectfully request that fans start blaming the tabloids & paparazzi for their hate-stirring bs; because I really do NOT want to take this message out into Stephenie Meyer's or EL James' brilliant futures. If you don't know what I mean by that, just check out my other blog about The Twilight Saga.

INTENTIONALLY-damaging articles posted on Hollywood Life JUST in December:

Robert Pattinson's Family Loves FKA Twigs More Than Kristen Stewart
Not only is Robert Pattinson having the best sex of his life with FKA twigs, but his family also loves her more than Kristen Stewart!

Kristen Stewart: Robert Pattinson Punishing Her With FKA Twigs ...
Is Kristen being punished for cheating on Rob with Rupert Sanders in 2012? ... Is Robert Pattinson, 28, using FKA twigs, 26, to get to his ex?

Kristen Stewart V. FKA Twigs: Rob's Ladies Face Off In 'Vogue'
Robert Pattinson sure knows how to pick 'em! Although on the surface Kristen Stewart, 24, and FKA Twigs, 26, don't seem to have much in ...

Robert Pattinson & FKA Twigs: He's Having The Best Sex Of His Life
Dec 19, 2014 ... Kristen Stewart doesn't think that Robert Pattinson will be able to hold FKA twigs' attention for too much longer, but he's sure having fun while it ...

Kristen Stewart Thinks FKA Twigs Will 'Grow Tired' Of Robert Pattinson
Dec 12, 2014 ... Robert Pattinson and FKA Twigs may appear to be over the moon for each other, but Kristen Stewart is convinced that Rob, 28, and FKA twigs, ...

Kristen Stewart Disses Robert Pattinson's Love FKA Twigs: 'She's
Dec 12, 2014 ... Robert Pattinson's new romance with FKA twigs is bringing out the worst in Kristen Stewart! K-Stew just can't understand what her ex sees in ...

Kristen Stewart: Her Big Move To Avoid Robert Pattinson & FKA Twigs
Dec 10, 2014 ... Now that Robert Pattinson has bought a new house close to where Kristen Stewart lives, the actress is making sure she doesn't subject herself ...

Kristen Stewart: Why She Thinks FKA Twigs Is Using Robert Pattinson
Dec 2, 2014 ... We're not surprised that Kristen still has feelings for Rob. We know she still misses ... Kristen Stewart Robert Pattinson Relationship FKA twigs.

Robert Pattinson: Why Kristen Stewart Isn't Sexy To Him Anymore
Dec 1, 2014 ... It's no secret that Rob is totally crazy about FKA twigs, but apparently K-Stew isn't even sexy to him anymore! HollywoodLife.com can tell you ...

PRETTY FANS COMMENTS LEFT BEHIND:

JOYCE Posted at 3:14 PM on December 23, 2014
Kristen will find her man, because she is a beautiful woman. She gave Robert Pattinson every thing he have. She gave him the opportunity to show his talent. when he was down and broke .But he have not come out and told the truth about Kristen cheating on him with a married man. It was a lie, and Robert knows that. am waiting for Robert to stand up and be a man . and tell his part in this lie. It will be Robert doing in ending his career.

Neither Robert NOR Kristen have anything to come clean about – she referred to the situation as a ‘momentary indiscretion’ when it happened; and he reunited with her SOON afterwards because thats ALL it was.
Kristen apologized to absolutely everyone TWICE – the first time was in her original public apology when she added the words, “and everyone this has affected”. NO ONE manipulated Robert into going back to her. He went back because HE was as MUCH as in LOVE with her as she was with HIM; and they were BOTH in PAIN.
Everything that has happened to them has been perfectly normal – with the exception of the tabloids twisting the story so misogynistically to have made so many more obsessed fans SICKER than they already were.

They split for REAL mid-May 2013 after the tabloids & paparazzi continued to hound them incessantly throughout the next year – remember the ‘trial separation’ smear and ‘Valetgate’?

THAT is why they split (and the Katy Perry LIES were probably the last straw - you'll see more about that, below). And until fans start realizing this and STOP trying to blame them both for things they NEVER DID – you’ll always hate them and each other.

sherry Posted at 8:42 PM on December 23, 2014  
@carina–yes Kristen was the strong one. She mothered him and looked after him while he did nothing to protect her from the cruelness that was shown by everyone. He was a user.

bs Posted at 9:51 PM on December 23, 2014  
@Carina, what do you call going back to her cheating a$$ and facing the music of her mistake while she hid out? I don’t think another man would have done that, so stop with the Rob didn’t do anything to protect her. Did she need protecting? I thought all of you say she is a strong woman.

GrewUpWithTwigs Posted at 8:33 PM on December 23, 2014  (Really HL? These kinds of comments are Okay? It sure looks like libel to me...)
Tahliah is MOFO! She is using him for publicity, his money and getting laid! She admits even her dad did not want her! She was a b*tch growing up and continues to be one to this day! Robert Pattinson will have nothing but regret and an STD if he stays with the wh*re! (She is bisexual and has broken up more than one marriage by sleeping with people. He really should be careful who he chooses to f*ck!)

Tracy123 Posted at 6:39 PM on December 23, 2014  
The only one being punished is Rob himself by letting Kristen slip away she “was” and will always be the best thing in his life!!! I think Rob is lost without Kristen he’s trying to make twigs her replacement But it’s like a puzzle and twigs just doesn’t fit .

anonymosme Posted at 7:34 PM on December 26, 2014  (I bet I know who this is... Are you by any chance from Down Under? This lady has been in on the scandal along with many others of us since the beginning - and yeah, many of us are BEYOND irritated with the hate for whatever reason. ;)
OK, all of you KSTEW haters!!!!!!! your all a bunch of back-biting hipocrites!!!!! yeah you are. KSTEW was good enough when she was with Rob, now that their apart and he’s seeing twit, you have NOTHING nice to say about ks!!!!!!!! she WAS the one that got him the twilight part. she is a talented actress, a gorgeous model, and she IS extremely smart, the whole package, I do not believe she would have interest in Rupert had Rob not given her a reason to. and Yes she took very good care of Rob. He should kiss the ground she walks on!!!!!! twit needs to find herself another married man to support her, at the rate SHES going with Rob, he’ll be broke!!!!! I still have hope that Robsten will reunite.

Holidays :) Posted at 11:52 PM on December 23, 2014  
I think we shall see the happily married couple in a few years selling Twigs septum rings and Robs signed Twilight posters on QVC…….He is everything he said he was not. Mugging for the cameras selling his soul to the tabs.

LB Posted at 12:04 AM on December 24, 2014  
@Holidays He is doing no such thing–never, not once. He has said not one word about his relationship, nor has he ever posed for paparazzi pictures. It’s not the man’s fault if his picture gets taken when he’s out in public. His picture is ALWAYS taken, either by fans or paparazzi. His only way to avoid that would be to hide inside 24 hours a day, and no one should have to do that.

Guest Posted at 7:37 AM on December 24, 2014  (Really, 'Guest'... You think Robert should curb his enthusiasm for his new gf (and curtail his movements) just because people like YOU can't stay away from their garbage?)
He could avoid many of his pap pics. He can arrive at a different door than she or leave separately. The ones where they paps follow them, yes, there’s nothing he can do about those but the others he can and hasn’t tried to avoid. He can also cut down on the public PDA. People are merely pointing out that he says one thing and does another. From his own lips he’s trying to avoid being photographed by paps at all costs. Not so. And now he’s going to live down the street from T-shift and across from Beyonce. Heck, they’ll be a pap stationed on the street corner now! Taylor is photographed a lot as is Beyonce in NYC.

@Loui Posted at 7:08 PM on December 24, 2014  
And Rupert left his wife but still didn’t stay with Kristen. That means she worse than Tahlia and sienna both combined in bed. Tahlia had a relationship with a man who cheated on his wife so did Kristen , but Kristen cheated on Rob. How many times must we say this to you Loui so your thick skull could finally absorb it?

keri Posted at 7:51 AM on December 24, 2014  (Many of you are still mad at HL for publishing this crap; but you still have your tabloid-manipulated opinions of Robert and FKA Twigs, don't you? Just because you saw ONE photo of her at a party with her arms crossed and not smiling - along with invasive, massive paparazzi image captures of them.)

exactiy .. how in the world would hl know if rob is having the best sex of his life, how would they know if his family likes her. Its not like they are talking to the tabs. Get a life HL… Twigs is using rob to make a name for herself, and the poor smuck is falling for her hook line and sinking his career. I hope Rob wakes up and sees her the vampid troll she is. If its true that she ruined a marriage then why is she like perfect? and Kristen’s little blimp of indescretion was a travesty, *if it was what it was really. I hope in the new year that HL gets a real source. and I hope Rob wakes up and finds his way back to himself.

Huh! Posted at 11:01 PM on December 23, 2014  
Nose ring disappeared, lol. British Kardashian.
I do not know when he became such a jerk Pattinson to sell your personal life. He is really user and he has first place in lying. He is the king of liars.
He and his gf are tabloid grub and they actually love to papzz photos, fan photos, such pose for tabloids is their life now.

Laura Kovacs NJ/NYC Posted at 10:58 PM on December 23, 2014  
Hey Rob where’s your nose ring ? You really dive bombed your career now. No longer a fan of yours. All I can say is that where will you be in about ten years when Kristen Stewart is up at the podium at the Oscars? Accepting an award for a role and thanking her husband, her family and saying goodnight to her children who are at home watching the broadcast. She is a brilliant, talented actress that you could obviously not handle her strength, determination, and power. Another example of a typical man who needs to be stroked and cant handle a strong women. You go girl !(Kristen) and press on. Don’t look back and grow from this. Hold your held up and don’t be sad. You will find the right gentleman who can except and be a partner to your power ! You go girl ! You are sooooooooooooooo much better without him! Don’t let anyone get you down ! As the youngest of five girls, been there, done that, and at the age of 50 I have learned so much and I still have more to go! Consider this a virtual hug. Take care -be well and keep your head up doll!

Catherine Posted at 2:56 AM on December 24, 2014  (This is me replying to the comment above - NOTICE the comment reply to mine. Thanks for leaving sh*t like THIS UP, HL!!!)

I can’t imagine Robert is going to miss any of you cruel, know-it-all ‘fans’ at all. GO and don’t come back – don’t watch his movies, don’t look up what he’s up to or who he’s dating. Just go.

Loui Posted at 10:17 AM on December 24, 2014  
@Catherine, Why don’t you follow your own advice you miserable b@tch!

Yeah, people hate me because I hate all the HATE that the tabloids intentionally stir up - go figure. I'm just now reading some of these comments, and THIS is LOUI again - you'll see LOTS of very special comments from this person below; and NONE of them nearly as sweet as this one!! Some 'Christian' you are, Loui. No doubt, you're not planning on getting into Heaven, LoL!!

Loui Posted at 3:29 PM on December 24, 2014  
@Caroline,my Dear Friend, I missed you so much, I am so happy to hear from you, how was your first year at Uni, I prayed for you for outstanding grades and success. I was lucky to make a very kind friend @Carina after you lost Internet connection, but hope you will be on board for December Holiday’s, I wish for you so much happiness and only Joy for Christmas, and so much success and only the best for 2015 you deserve the best my Dear Friend, Hugs and Tons of Love to you!

Get a life! Posted at 6:13 PM on December 24, 2014  
Damn @Loui, how many loved filled messages are you gonna send to @caroline?
Call her on the phone why don’t you? Oh I get it, she is just your HWL friend like @MITPUK1.
No REAL! friends then? Damn that’s sad. Damn girl get out and make some real friends.
You are so wrapped up in the internet that you probably forgot to actually live.
Go make real friends. It’s a good thing.

Venus Posted at 8:03 AM on December 26, 2014  
According to my reliable sources, FKA twigs was bragging to her inner circle that” I’m famous in U.S. & I have to suck it up although Rob is like a pop jello in bed “& she misses her bad boy exes.!

@Venus Posted at 11:02 AM on December 27, 2014  
Were your sources in that minicooper with Rupert Sanders and kristen,because they sound like dysfuctional armpit licking @$$holes!!! And so do you…

Hilary Posted at 4:57 AM on December 26, 2014  
I am not surprised that they like piglet better – they probably feel sorry for the fugly thing!

Aloha Posted at 6:08 PM on December 25, 2014  
Twigs never cheated on Rob. Kristen DID. Good Rob left her.

Margaret in the pink UK /// one Posted at 8:16 AM on December 27, 2014  
Nor did Kristen from early 2009 to mid 2012 and there was no affair even Liberty said that
When Twiglets been with Rob 3 and a half years then you silly child u can make that statement

@Mitpuk Posted at 11:08 AM on December 27, 2014  
it was an affair.thats why the relationship stumbled into nothingness! You should be ashamed Margaret for saying kristen did not cheat from 2009 to 2012 what the hell are you saying here? Even if she cheated one night she still cheated , even if she kissed rupert and what everelse and realised two hours later that she made a mistake then she had a short affair BUT an affair NONETHA LESS!Grow up

Joyce Posted at 5:10 AM on December 27, 2014  
@annonymose. Kristen Stewart did not have affair with Rupert Sanders. The whold was a hoax. Look at the video ==LIBERTY DID IT AN INSIDER TOLD. And ask Google.com Search= = IS KRISTEN STEWART CHEATING PHITOS FAKE. . It was done to help Robert ans Liberty Ross. Read all about it when you ask Google

FYI - AGAIN. Kristen did NOT CHEAT with Rupert Sanders... Read all about those details here: http://hub.me/aj0JF This is what was wrong with the 'scandal' from the beginning; the papz AND tabloids KNEW what it was, but that wouldn't be NEARLY as big of a money-maker. So they INTENTIONALLY TWISTED those images (not Robert or Liberty or Rupert) and the story to make it appear that she had actually been cheating instead of fending off her predatory boss. Rupert practically forced that kiss on her while she was trying to fend him off without losing her job (much like Jacob did to Bella - except Jacob was a love-sick fool; and Rupert Sanders was a married man who shouldn't have had his lips anywhere NEAR her). It is a NORMAL situation that all kinds of girls and women find themselves in EVERY DAY; and the way the tabloids have spun things SO MANY TIMES is NOT legal NOR right; NOR is it 'entertaining'.

bluemoon Posted at 11:30 AM on December 26, 2014  
Rob does not love women, he is bi, all the people he as dated were either gay, o bi,
Kristen was business partner.

@@ bluemoon Posted at 2:23 AM on December 27, 2014  This comment actually started out good; but you all have to BLAME SOMEONE instead of the actual people you need to be blaming.
Kirsten was not his business partner. She really loved him. She loved him enough to abandon her dignity and privacy and throw herself at his feet immediately after the pics came out. She said he was the most important thing in her life– the person she admired and respected the most. She declared her love for him o the whole world. Of course, that was before she found out that he’d been cheating on her all along.

@ @ louie Posted at 3:52 AM on December 26, 2014  
Rupert never had a chance to find out how Kristen was in bed. All he ever got from her was a kiss. Liberty herself said she belives it never went anay farther than that.
Rob, on the other hand, lived with Kristen for four years. He had several affairs during that time, but he kept coming back to her. She didn’t know he was cheating, until the Katy Perry affair, when it was so obvious she could no longer ignore it,and she kicked him out. Yoo saw it happen–the truck ride with trash bags.

@ Jaln Posted at 4:00 AM on December 25, 2014 (Gosh, you ALMOST have the whole story right, LoL!) Jaln, I am a Kristen fan. I am not only an English speaker, I was an English major. My writing has won awards and has been published as editorial pieces in several large newspapers.
It’s you who are misinformed. Kristen did not cheat. That would have require sex, which did not happen. All she did was kiss the guy once and allow him to put his arms around for a few minutes, standing up, outdoors, on a busy residential street. Rob only left her for about ten days afterward. Then they reunited and lived together for the better part of a year.
The momentary indiscretion occurred on July 17. They reunited in August, and lived together until May 19th of the next year when SHE THREW HIM OUT for cheating with Katy Perry. You saw it–the truck ride with trash bags. He came to her house directly from spending the night with Katy, and it was to Katy’s house he returned with his trash bags–and he stayed there for about two months.
I know that there are SO many fans who blame Katy Perry for Kristen & Robert’s breakup because that was one of the many rumor-lies at the time. But the only thing Katy probably did to irritate the situation was HELP Robert IGNORE Kristen's pleas to STOP hanging around with her ENTIRE CAMP WITHOUT HER so that the tabloids would stop with that specific LIE. He wasn't going out on dates with 'just Katy'. Robert has been friends with Katy Perry since 2008 (what DOES Katy have to say about her relationship with Robert?) shortly after he arrived in Hollywood. It was a perfectly NORMAL thing for Robert to be doing.

Hollywood's TABLOIDS & PAPARAZZI are the most likely reason for Rob & Kris to have split up; NOT because she 'cheated' on him. Am I mad at Robert for probably giving up before Kristen did? How can any of us be with all the HATE that has ALWAYS swarmed around them both? Kristen was probably the one keeping his interest in focus for so long before she finally gave up, too. They BOTH deserve a HUGE break from their fans who supposedly love them.

guest Posted at 3:23 AM on December 24, 2014  (Yes, the tabloids had your panties all up in knots during that time, didn't they 'guest'? And you were one of the many fools believing it - THAT is why Kristen got mad at him for hanging out with Katy too much. Because of the tabloids saying stuff that people like YOU will believe.)
Well then it’s certainly a co-incidence that he was photographed leaving Kristen’s house the morning of May 19th, with all his stuff packed in trash bags half an hour after he arrived directly from spending the night with Katy Perry–immediately after spending the weekend with her in Las Vegas (there are pics) and after spending the week squiring her around New York. (He didn’t even bother to move from Katy’s hotel to Kristen’s hotel when Kristen arrived for the Met Ball).
It was Kristen who threw him out, it was he who had an affair, not Kristen, and it was she who lost trust. And this was not the first affair he had had during their relationship, but one of a string of infidelities–real cheating, not just a kiss.

IF Robert didn't bother to leave Katy Perry's hotel in NY - that probably meant that Rob & Kris broke up WHILE they were in New York!! It does not mean that Robert was sleeping with Katy - they were SURROUNDED by their friends like they always WERE.

And, EVEN IF Robert spent the night at Katy's place, she has a BIG HOUSE with more than one bedroom. Again, Rob & Kris had probably already broken up by that time and didn't WANT to spend anymore nights together. Katy was being a good friend to Robert; but NOT being a good friend by encouraging his antics with her (especially since she is a celebrity, herself). However, I'm sure her heart was in the right place. She was no-doubt trying to help him escape the crap.

Unfortunately, Rob & Kris would probably have ended up splitting eventually, anyway - with the way the tabloids & papz NEVER stop. Very FEW couples could have survived the gossip-bombardment on their relationship.

Ulfur Posted at 7:28 PM on December 23, 2014  
Sheesh… Kristen and Rob were a showmance. They didn’t even have to act like a couple. Summit PR and obsessed fangirls took care of that and kept the fauxmance alive. “Becoming a couple” at the start of a multi-billion dollar franchise and then “breaking up” one month after it ending, should make this obvious for anyone with half a brain. If Rob and Twigs are happy, good for them. Kristen also seems happy, living with her lesbian “BFF” for over a year.

Guest Posted at 3:11 AM on December 24, 2014  
They didn’t become a couple at the start of the franchise, and it wasn’t a billion dollar franchise when they were making the first movie, it was an indie–a little indie, or so everyone thought. They still weren’t a couple in Italy while they were making New Moon. There’s a video of Ashley Green happily babbling, “In Italy, Kristen and I and Dakota all dated Rob. Rob really has lips.”
It wasn’t until June, 2,009, a year after the first twilight film wrapped, that Kristen and Michael split up. Soon thereafter, Rob and Kristen moved into their suite at the top of the “Couve”. She had resisted him and tried to stay with her long-time beau for more than a year. Filming wrapped on BD 1 and 2 in April 2,011. Part two came out in November 2012. Robert was photographed moving his stuff out of Kristen’s house May 19, 2013. So their getting together and their splitting up didn’t correspond to the beginning and end of Twilight at all.

JOYCE Posted at 6:18 AM on December 25, 2014  (Just read the article link left in the next comment, Joyce. We know Rob 'had a crush' on Kristen - that doesn't mean they had a romance going until later. Rob confirmed their relationship in 2011; and Kristen confirmed it in 2012.)

@guest you do not know what you are talking about , Robert told the world in 2008 that he had a crush before he met her , When he saw her in the movie INTO THE WILD, Go to youtube to the behind the scene videos 2007 to 2008 And stop telling lies on Robert. You can not find one video on what you are talking about

Catherine Posted at 3:16 AM on December 24, 2014  
Wow, I’m actually somewhat IMPRESSED, Guest – well done!!
There are actually also many OTHER reasons beyond that as to why their romance was NOT a showmance or a promance or a fake up.
Read all about it here: hub.me/aj0JF

jen Posted at 3:48 AM on December 25, 2014  
Rob’s family must be so relieved that finally their son let the cheater go

Loui Posted at 11:57 AM on December 25, 2014  
Yes I agree a whore in place of K is a improvement cause now they don’t have to worry were he will get the white powder from, the Dark Twig is keeping him supplied and under her thumb, every mother’s and sisters dream! LOL

Loui Posted at 4:08 AM on December 26, 2014  
Twigs the Darky is a whore and Fu…… Ugly!

katie Posted at 10:23 PM on December 24, 2014  
obviously Rob’s family loves Twigs more. She loves their son and makes him happy.
They must hate kscrew for cheating on their son

Chris Posted at 12:54 AM on December 25, 2014  
@Katie. I think so too. There’s no reason his fam would prefer The Cheater.

Loui Posted at 4:14 AM on December 26, 2014  
@Katie, Do you mean healthy as in pasty white with a skeleton head, dirty and stinking and always drunk, is that your way of being healthy and can’t he get his clothes dry cleaned, is he sleeping on the sidewalks, WOW you must live a terribly impoverished life to think Rob looks healthy, remember that guy is ONLY 28 years old, but different strokes to different folks!

RPLOVESKS Posted at 7:43 PM on December 24, 2014  
Dont believe this dips**t HL story. HL create it especially for those haters @ RP & KS. Honestly, they are married with a baby girl. Please respect them. They are family now. All those twigs pic is very very OLD pictures. Pics has being made up & photo editing by the stupid media. Remember, bad media & bad paparazi, they are evil & loves to digs your viewing so that they earn more money from their link

Here's the link that debunk's HKN Haven's baby conspiracy theory - along with all the other ones they've been developing since FKA Twigs entered the picture.

JOYCE Posted at 9:30 AM on December 24, 2014  
Examiner say Robert family want Twigs.gone. HWL is lying. Robert world family say Twigs is a bad influence on Robert. They are putting all Robert`s drinking on twigs. Robert family want him back with Kristen. And I don`t think Kristen want him back. I think that is why Robert did not go home for Christmas this year. And twigs family is in London too.

Catherine Posted at 12:43 PM on December 24, 2014  
The Examiner says one thing and HL says another… BOTH are LIES, but you’ve CHOSEN to believe one of them as the truth because it’s the one you want to be true.
Come on, Joyce…

Jaln Posted at 7:47 AM on December 24, 2014  
What was Kristen thinking with when she was having sex all around town with that married director Rupert Sanders?

IKnowTahliah Posted at 9:05 PM on December 23, 2014  
ROBERT’S FAMILY IS A BUNCH OF F*CKING IDIOTS if they do not see how Tahliah is using him! She wants the publicity his name brings, his money to finance her stupid career and his d*ck while she looks for another girl to f*ck! (She has done so many times!) The girl is a user! She has broken up more than one marriage! Tahliah is not even wanted by her own family – her dad does not even claim her and spent years distancing himself from her Two Week old sh*t! Get a life Tahliah and stop ruining others! If the Pattinson’s like they deserve the destruction and ruin she will bring this “family”!

Loui Posted at 3:04 AM on December 24, 2014  
@IKnowTahliah, Thank you for the info, you’re a darling and I believe you!

Alyson Posted at 8:56 PM on December 23, 2014  
Yes,she is really creepy looking! Kristen is much prettier.I guess there is no accounting for taste.She must have something we don’t see.

bs Posted at 9:41 PM on December 23, 2014  
@Alyson, she does, she has Rob.

Here are a few good suggestions for tabloids to be writing
about if they just HAVE to drag Kristen into Robert’s new romance:

Kristen Stewart Supportive of Robert Pattinson and FKA Twigs:
but HATES the Massive (Rape-like) Paparazzi Image-Captures of
them together that she is so familiar with because she knows
how it feels as well as how hard they are to ignore for very long.

FKA Twigs Manages to Capture the Attention (and heart?) of
Heartbroken Twilight Hearthrob, Robert Pattinson:
Kristen Stewart stays out of sight for awhile while fans
adjust to seeing him with his unusual new girlfriend
- but, a couple pics of her out in about in LA do not
portray a heartbroken or angry ex-girlfriend

Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart, Who Have Remained Friends
Since Breaking Up in May 2013 - Attend Hollywood Film Awards;
While Once Again, Putting on a United Front to Avoid Each Other
in order to Eliminate Paparazzi Money-Making Images of them
together and Keep Tabloid Speculation about them to a Minimum

Rookie of the Year: FKA Twigs
(Woops, this is actually a real one – there are some. ;)



Not ONE of you has a good reason
to not kiss and make up
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In a nutshell, this also contains the ‘cheating’ scandal summary with
links to absolutely everything; along with the reasons why Rob & Kris
ACTUALLY broke up; and HOW ’50 Shades of Grey’ was inspired
by Twilight. I can’t make things more condensed than this.

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Friday, May 2, 2014

Will Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson Ever Reunite?

They did it once after the 'cheating' scandal in 2012.
Will Kristen Stewart & Robert Pattinson ever reunite again?
Update 3/18/15: There are too many fans out in Internetland who decided a long time ago that Kristen Stewart & Robert Pattinson are each other's first loves and therefore cannot possibly be apart now or ever.

These fans are mostly (not all) non-english speakers who have twisted some of the things Rob or Kris have said in past interviews. For instance:

Just because Robert claimed to 'have a crush' on Kristen since watching the movie, Into the Wild - does not mean that Kris is his 'first love'. He dated Nina for a while and took her to the Harry Potter premiere; and Kristen dated Michael Angarano for a couple of years.

Also, Robert was being his normal 'teasing' self during that press tour when he said that he and Kristen are 'married in the eyes of the church'. If the minister who married them thought for one moment that him doing the ceremony was a 'spiritual marriage' - he would have declined to do it. Robert was just being a tease to his fans - like he does. (Honestly, Ashley Greene should have kicked him hard under the table and told him to shut up, LoL! So many of us knew what was going to happen with a comment like that. Rob can't help but be a serious goofball sometimes. ;)

Rob and Kris are not married and there is no robsten baby, girls...  They have not been a romantic couple since May 2013.

I'm just making sure those of you who are spinning this article around Twitter at the moment realize what I'm actually saying in here. I know that there are many HKN Haven 'baby conspiracy theory' girls out there right now; and I don't want you using this post to justify any of your wishful fantasy conclusions. ;)
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Even though FKA Twigs is in the picture, now... She only considerably lowers the possibility of Rob & Kris reuniting. She (nor anyone else) will completely eliminate that until one or the other of them finally gets married - so all this stuff below still applies.

Every once in a blue moon Prince Charming comes back... But usually ONLY after you have moved on with your own life; AND IF he really was 'your' Prince Charming. :)

Update 5/28/14 - In The Hollywood Reporter Interview with Robert Pattinson - he is asked if he and Kristen are still in contact; and his reply is, "Oh, yeah." (Plus, there is considerable evidence that suggests Robert had attended an FKA Twigs concert in April and LEFT with her afterwards. So he is probably saying this AFTER he started - at least thinking about - dating Tahliah.)

That response could mean anything, and it would NOT be unusual for them to remain in touch and still be VERY good friends even IF they are no longer stoking the fires of a romantic relationship.

Plus, there is an image of Robert with his arm around a girl during Katy Perry's London concert, recently. This has many fans flustered.

Just relax, take a deep breath and find a good diversion - CREATE one if you have to. Stop doing internet searches on them and surfing into tabloids. When WE stop, the tabloids will stop when those stories no longer make them money.
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We've all seen the rumor-mongering out there... Will Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson unite at Cannes or will they EVER reunite? Or heck, did they ever break up to begin with? Are they putting on this show for the paparazzi & tabloids this year or have they REALLY split?

I've said this from the beginning, it's none of our business. However, fans have a hard time staying away from the question, especially when the gossip rags keep bringing it up. It concerns many fans whether it should, or not. That is a perfectly normal fan-response.

So, as someone who has been watching them both pretty closely for the past couple of years - this is my opinion, and that's all it is. Keep in mind at this point that NO ONE KNOWS what is actually going on between them.

I, for one, am hoping that either Kris or Rob will at least say something in response to this mess in a Cannes interview. It would be perfect timing for them to do so since they will both be there for professional reason and the interviews will be rolling. We'll see what happens.

But, from a semi-educated distance, this is what I think:

Ever since the 'breaking up for now' rumors started last May - it seemed pretty obvious to me that they had started that rumor themselves. They either needed a break from their crazy lives and/or their relationship. Plus, they have both remained (debatably) single throughout this year - mostly paying attention to their careers (btw, they have been doing that for their beloved FANS as much as for themselves).

One thing that has struck me from the beginning is how DIFFERENT this 'break-up' was this time than last time. For example, we started seeing things happening right away - Kristen was seen hanging out with friends & smiling for the papz, and Robert moved stuff out of the house, he had a Hollywood party without her, Kristen got her own new puppy, etc. It was almost like they had a plan.

It also seemed quick and hot - like something came to a head (and we didn't hear any of that "we'll always love each other" BS like most Hollywood 'divorces'). That 'something' didn't necessarily HAVE to be their relationship. This split COULD be 'all about the papz & tabloids' because they had been taking hits against them both individually and as a Hollywood couple all the way up until the split happened in May.

They could have just decided to create a break for themselves.

And, Kris and/or Rob seemed to be consciously trying to affect the course of the story at first - but it didn't take long for things to get out of hand. I would imagine they just let go of things at some point and let the stories take their course.

Fans were pretty much on their own to do the right thing and ignore the lies - or deal with whatever they were hearing from the tabloids.

And THEN... We SAW them together in October!!

What arguments that event has caused among fans, huh? I've seen every explanation from Kris & Rob were living close at the time and just happened to be driving down the same road; to Kristen setting up the scene and calling the paparazzi to tip them off, herself.

*I* took that situation to mean that they are NOT enemies whether they have actually ceased the romantic part of their relationship, or not. I believe they still keep in contact via cell phones and texts - just based on knowing what all my past 'breakups' have been like. (Yeah, I'm an Aries who was married to a Taurus for ten years. It CAN work, ha! Well, for awhile at least - we did eventually divorce.)

It would not be unusual for them to downgrade their relationship to BFF status - even if the romance is gone. Especially in a place like Hollywood - you need all the allies you can get; and these two professional actors have been allies for too long to let something that valuable in that hostile environment fizzle completely out.

They have too much of an 'in the trenches' bond whether anyone thinks they should have it or not.

I've never been obsessed about these two, and I do not consider myself to be a 'robsten' fan. But with everything that I've seen and read about them and their relationiship over the past couple of years - with how much they have had to put up with and how HARD they have had to fight; I'm having a hard time believing that things ended on such a hostile, permanent note.

Even today... Kristen still looks pretty happy and so does Robert. When they are both DANG good and READY is when we will see them either together or with someone else.

I'm placing the odds at 60% that they WILL eventually reconcile when the time is right again; and a 95% chance that they will at least remain BFF's.

NOTE that there is a 40% - 5% possibility of the opposite - it's a very real possibility that things are completely over between them. In that case, their relationship likely never stood a chance against Hollywood, tabloid rags, paparazzi cockroaches and fan judgments ASIDE from the 'normal' hard work it takes to make a romantic relationship thrive in todays world.

No one should be mad at either one of them no matter what happens - you know (probably many) someones will be infuriated whether they end up on the same road again or not. They TRIED - they get credit for that.

I'm not so sure *I* would have. They both get credit for jumping back into the fire against the odds. ;)

What do you think? Feel free to disagree - just try to be semi-non-cruel about it, Okay?

If you need help dealing with a stubborn Twilight and/or Robsten obsession, click here. A LOT of fans are having a hard time dealing STILL because it IS HARD to get past an obsession like Twilight when there are so many jerks poking at you about it.

This is a more recent post that talks about the dumb cheating scandal
via online fan & anti-fan comments. While this may seem like a
'hot', hateful post - it is only that for 'haters'. You know who they are; and
you'll see plenty from them in here - along with us fans who have been
defending them both for a long dang time. If you want to know
what tabloids & paparazzi have been doing to Twilight's divided fanbases;
and
why Robert Pattinson & Kristen Stewart really broke up
- that info is in here.

Twilight & Anti-Twilight Over-Obsessions can be Explained
"Telling on my big Twilight Sisters" Why was Twilight an
inappropriately-targeted story for OLDER girls? ;)

This is how I know so much about Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson...
it was sort of a side-effect of doing all this research on The Twilight Saga
from a movie fan's perspective. I could see all this stuff happening to us and
Kristen & Robert – but I wasn’t really paying attention to it like NONE of us were.

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Why is Twilight So Addictive? HOW to get over a Twilight Obsession.

Update 8/21/15 - Oh yeah, many Twilight Fans are still struggling with their unusually-intense obsessions. The post below is good to read; but this is the most recent and condensed version of how to get over a Twilight addiction. It includes an email exchange from someone who is having issues just like you. I will also tell you how *I* got hung-up on Twilight and how I got past it. :)

5/26/13
Disturbing Keyword Search into Here

i love you i need help with my addiction to twilight

No, none of you are alone, Twilight Fangirls. This IS
the heaviest-hit post in here by far every day from
just about every country in the world.

You're going to be fine, just like Robert & Kristen will be.

I've also recently learned that the words obsessed/obsession have
been replaced with the words "ship/shipper/shipping"
Just catching us all up with the times.

Yes, this is a long read - save it and come back to it
later if you need to. A long, slow read is probably
better for your brains. Trust me on this. ;)

It is highly likely that no two Twilight or Anti-Twilight obsessions are the same. I'll tell you all about them, how they developed and why they are different for everyone in this post.

If it isn't clear to you, yet - THIS is why Hollywood's tabloids & paparazzi torture Kristen Stewart & Robert Pattinson, because it is PROFITABLE for them when OUR emotions are spinning around about them.

OUR 'real' feelings are connected to THEIR real lives through OUR 'magical' Twilight obsessions. It is the REASON WHY we HURT inside - whether they are actually hurting in their lives or not - when these gossip rags tell their stories. Nothing AT ALL wrong with 'our obsessions' - UNLESS you're dealing with a bunch of painful, incessant internal static about 'Robsten' - THAT would be your obsession screaming in pain, just FYI.

Others of you are simply dealing with 'missing' more Twilight, especially since Bdp2 is over. For still others of you, your obsessions kind of crossover into a grey area in between. That's Okay, there's help for everyone in here. If one thing doesn't seem to apply to you, something else probably will. :)


Here's a few simple things to HELP you through your obsession if these gossip rags are still driving you crazy - and more if you need it. I won't add to all this painful bashing at your hearts, I promise. :)

And PLEASE... By all means, if you've got more helpful stuff to add into the comments, please do. I'm only one person from one perspective - some of you may have had successes with other things.

To start... not everything is about "our obsession" - MOST of your obsessions out there are FINE. It's the PAIN that comes from seeing your favorite fairytale and favorite actress and actor being so tormented by your OWN Twihard Sisters and the world that is HARSH.


Also, this is another kind of obsession-pain some Twilight Fans are beginning to experience - I'm just now starting to see keyword searches along these lines in June 2013: With no more Twilight in sight, many Twihards are REALLY beginning to miss Twilight and the characters.

I thought about this earlier, but I had forgotten about it... Twilight's characters are like big, cozy, Winnie-the-Poo type characters that make you feel warm and safe. But yeah, Breaking Dawn is such a final finale.

It would be so helpful if Summit could come up with a continuing series or something - if they could manage to 'do it right'. Twihard fans didn't deserve to have their favorite fairytale ruined by Hollywood's celebrity-lifebashing ways like this. It really was cruel of the paparazzi & gossip tabloids to do this.

I don't have hardly anything for you in here toward that yet, because you caught me off guard - I've been all worried about peeps wrapped up in 'robsten'. ;)

Update 6/3/13 - Okay, I've been thinking about it... This is one of the things that helped *me* as I was beginning to release my obsession with Twilight two Novembers ago, now...

My mind immediately started to create all kinds of different Twilight scenarios (see the alternative universes & endings along the side of this link). This is probably one of the reasons why there is so much Twilight fanfiction. Stephenie Meyer and her Twilight Saga get TONS of kudos for inspiring so many people to create beyond her written words.

While so many people wrote Twilight fanfiction because they were truly fans... So many OTHER people wrote Twilight fanfiction to make corrections to the storyline - like me - and/or to tide themselves over until the next Twilight book came out because they just couldn't wait, ha!

Twihards have ALWAYS been hungry for more Twilight. ;)

So, honestly... If you're struggling with the end of The Twilight Saga, this is the BEST ADVICE I can think of...

Rewrite your own Twilight, now... Not necessarily in the literal kind of way like The Twilight Saga books are novels, but in your head. (But that's not a bad idea - see my idea about a Twilight Reality Show, LoL!)

One of the really nifty things about obsessions and fantasies is that they are very personal and organic things. They can be started, then stopped and recreated over and over again in our minds whenever we need them to change.

If you don't like how any one fantasy is going, rethink it... Do it over again... What would YOU do with these pretty Twilight characters if Stephenie Meyer's dream had been YOUR dream...

This is helpful fantasy play because now you are taking these characters where you want them to go - instead of Stephenie. YOU are Bella now... or Alice or Rosalie or Esme or one of their amazing Cullen husbands. ;)

And what about you team Jacob fans... Surely you could come up with a better love story for Jacob and Bella?

You can't just shut obsessions down like flipping off a light switch - they don't work that way. That's why these Hollywood PR Assaults have been so harmful - it seriously interrupted the intense obsessions of many many Twilight Fans no matter how old they were.

However, you can control them a bit by taking control of the Captain's Wheel of your heart.

INDULGE them when you have time... write, think, read, watch, create... check out Twilight Fans sites or YouTube and see what other Twilight Fans have created.

I know alot of you already do this - good, you're doing it right. Resisting the distracting pull of an obsession takes more energy than quitting cold turkey. We are not talking about addictions as dangerous as Meth or Heroin - so indulge. ;)

Do what you can to explore your obsession in ways that you haven't thought of, before. Since they are so deep in the mind for so many of you - you'll probably find that they EVENTUALLY lead you to your own REAL dreams along with some creative ideas on how to accomplish those dreams.

But, you kind of have to go through some muck first, especially if your obsession is less than three years old... You kind of have to let yourself sink into them for awhile before you get to the point where you WANT to come back up for air.

You will, eventually... Because when you don't have time to be off in your head 'obsessing' with the Cullens; you'll be You/Bella (or whomever) in your REAL everyday life until you can get back to working on your/her dreams.

Take your favorite Twilight characters with you in your mind everywhere you go in your REAL life and use them like you would imaginary friends - but try to find time 'just to obsess' also.

What would YOU/Bella do in any given moment of your real life, right now? What would you/Bella be talking to Edward about - or any of Twilight's pretty characters? 

Bella is like the boosters of a rocket for some of you for awhile if you use your fantasy of her in this way... Eventually, 'she' will just fall off the rocket when she isn't needed anymore, and away you go!

Eventually you'll become interested/distracted by other real-life things - TRY not to go directly into another obsession, yet - stick your head up out of the clouds for awhile. Maybe you're missing something. ;)

Also, TRY not to read the books or watch the movies anymore - at least for awhile. This will be easier for some of you than for others. Again, indulge if you need to, there's no hurry. Obsessions are supposed to wear away slowly. But TRY to make Twilight YOUR story, now. I hope that makes sense.

And before you know it... GONE, you'll hardly realize that you're flying on your own. And that moment when you do realize it will feel SO GOOD! ;)

If you still need more help because you're spinning about Kristen and/or Robert - keep reading. 

I'm trying to start this off slow so you only need to read as much as you need. However, if you're looking for the actual explanation as to WHY The Twilight Saga is so addictive to read OR to watch as a movie (especially for us girls of all ages, ha!) - click here.

Also, this is my latest post about why Twilight, itself (Chapter One: First Sight) - is such an addictive read - neither of these posts are mean, at all.

If these posts (above) do nothing else, they give us all a REASON to FORGIVE overly-obsessed Twihards out there who just can't get a grip on reality. This alone makes ALOT of Twilight Fans who have read these posts feel better. (You'll see these links again, later.)

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This is probably what MOST Twihards need, so I'm sticking these first three "helps" up here at the top. You may need more than this, however. If you do, just keep reading... ;)

It does not matter whether or not Kristen and Robert are still together, what MATTERS is how you're dealing with what you're hearing - if you just can't stay away from this stuff. (I know some of you feel an intense need to do a search on them several times a day.)

MANY of you out there are having a HARD time grasping, "how/why" Kristen could DO something like this to Robert and it's STILL driving you CRAZY... Here's my response to a recent email earlier this month:

"...I can think of a few reasons, but the main one that comes to mind is just being young and scared. They were done with Twilight and both of their careers probably seemed to be a little up-in-the-air and uncertain. PLUS, what about the fear of being uncertain yourself about whether or not your relationship will last past Breaking Dawn? Not to mention all the PRESSURE...

It's not like Kristen is actually BELLA and already has a perfect happy ending already written out for her.

Rupert was "just an escape" for Kristen - much like Twilight is for US, except he was a real person she "escaped" to instead of inside a silly fairytale for awhile. SHE wasn't serious about HIM, nor was he with her!

I think if this situation did anything good, it helped Robert and Kristen re-evaluate and re-establish "what they mean" to each other. It looks to me like their bond has deepened.

Of course, I could be wrong - time will tell."


Update 5/21/13 - Seems like Robsten might be falling apart - apparently, Robert has now moved out. While this news is still not yet confirmed - it looks pretty real; and the lingering nature and dread of the possibility of it is harsh for many Twihards.

I know alot of you are sad now... I'm going to take you back to the very beginning of this cheating scandal mess. This was the very first post I did in here after I heard about it, and it still applies... Just take a healthy dose of Esme's advice: take a deep breath, let things work themselves out and let it go.

If things haven't worked out the way you wanted them to - that's life, and it goes on. Be nice to each other and support each other, Twihards - you NEED each other right now, as silly as that may seem to people.

Your FEELINGS ARE REAL even if your obsession is not - take care of them, or they'll turn into ugly things. Robert has more movies coming out soon, so you have that to look forward to - and I think Kristen has some coming out, too. This is NOT the end of their lives, they're still TODDLERS just like alot of you are.

Yes - you're all still welcome to send me a private email if you need someone to vent at/talk to - Catherine: auntmisfitchick@gmail.com
 
1) MOST over-obsessing Twihards are super-hung-up on ROBERT in particular - but, for a few others it is KRISTEN. And for whatever reason, since the cheating scandal AND before - it really BOTHERS some of you that they are together in real life. This is silly, but it is a NORMAL obsession thing - we LIKE the fantasy peeps we are obsessed with to "seem available", ha!

Many many MANY Twihards have serious hangups with Kristen Stewart "being in their fantasy space" in Robert Pattinson/Edward Cullens's life - even though SHE is the one who is REAL within it!!

You are truly over-obsessing about these two if it would make you feel BETTER if they EITHER finally and "officially" broke up OR if they were to "officially confirm" their relationship - BOTH ways are EQUALLY destructive over-addictions.

You need to restore a balance of them in your head, and there are probably a few ways to do that (another really good way is #5 on this list). But, #5 is a pretty complete unraveling/explanation of Twilight obsessions, and MANY of you out there ARE NOT READY for that and you may never be ready for it.

It's too SOON for you... Obsessions are SUPPOSED to unravel slowly and HARMLESSLY...

That's Okay, you don't have to EVER see Twilight any other way than the way you do now - unless you're really struggling in your everyday life, THEN you might need a little more medicine. ;)

This is what I told one TwiLady who was having issues with this, recently. You can also apply this to KRISTEN if she is the one you are hung up on.

"Do you have any other Robert Pattinson movies to watch other than Twilight? Try to forget about Kristen and what she did for awhile, that will be easier to do if you're watching Rob in something else. Then watch another movie of his and then another one - watch them over. Watch him until he isn't Edward Cullen and/or Kristen Stewart's victimized boyfriend to you anymore.

He's a very talented, beautiful guy who pours himself into every character he takes on - that takes internal STRENGTH and emotional fortitude, along with one hell of an imagination. He's DYNAMIC with REAL Human feelings, ideas and interests BEYOND even Kristen Stewart and certainly US, ha!

Don't wonder about "what he's like" as his Human self - wonder about things like, "what might he have been thinking as he was doing this scene" or "how would he prepare for something like that"?


I saw the movie Cosmopolis (this is my movie review - LOVED it!!), and I wondered that about the "strut" he did through the alley - he HAD to have practiced that, ha!

IF you can dislodge your CURRENT perspective about him into something more realistic - you SHOULD be able to watch Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 1 and Part 2 alot sooner without all that extra static going on inside of you; PLUS, it will probably make all the other movies he does more enjoyable for you because you'll be seeing HIM 'as whomever' - not just as Edward Cullen. ;)

It's almost like both he and Kristen are "too real" to us because we know so much about their personal lives. Take him back into your obscure fantasy world and let him become the fantasy guy he was once again - WITHOUT "who he REALLY is" weighing in on things.

Because NONE of us will EVER get close enough to him to get to know the real Robert Pattinson - and frankly, we probably wouldn't want to get to know him like that. Because when people go from being a fantasy to 'real' Human to us - that's when we lose our magical fantasy ideals surrounding them and they become "just like us" - not NEARLY as interesting, ha!

And the MAGIC that comes from him is JUST as REAL as the facts. So many of us have LOST that magic through this PR assault. Some peeps need to find a way to let it go, and SOME (maybe you) need to find a way to reconfigure it cuz it isn't going to go ANYWHERE.

Perhaps you cherish it too much. Nothing AT ALL wrong with that. :)"
 

2) Some of you fangirls are hung up on "Robsten" as an unbreakable couple and you just need a little "PR Relief" - kind of like a steam vent.

Here's the reality of the previous 'Robsten' scandals if you still need them:

I know alot of you young Twihards out there are feeling kind of weird now about Kristen/Bella and Robert/Edward. I know you were still THRILLED when Breaking Dawn Part 2 came out, but there was a dampener on the whole thing OR you were EXTRA-thrilled while you were watching it because you knew that Robert and Kristen have reunited.

Some Twihards were so incensed because of this cheating publicity scandal that they couldn't go watch the movie - the entire story has been ruined for them now, for NO OTHER REASON than THEIR OWN irresponsibly-embedded, INTENSE Twilight obsessions.


No matter which way YOUR emotional pendulum is swinging, Hollywood's gossip rags are STILL jerking your Twilight hearts all over the place and they have been doing that since long BEFORE this cheating scandal happened - it's just been extra-painful this time around because they managed to bash Kristen and Robert good and HARD for us - their UNWILLING and emotionally-INVESTED audience - in this DUMB real-lifebashing MONEY-MAKING Hollywood GAME of theirs.

Kristen and Robert should be getting PAID like REALITY STARS (or at least getting paid for RIGHTS, ha!) by these tabloids with every sh*tty thing they come up with about them.

This post sort of validates what I told the young ladies (below) - it's a whittled-down timeline of the "Robsten" PR stunt from "the day after" through the Breaking Dawn premiere from the original long first-post on my other blog. It really walks us through our obsessions, at times. (I'm sorry, this post has been removed, but the content is within other links in this blog - which you will arrive at, eventually.

Here's a couple of slices from some emails I have received along with my (edited) response to them - but generally, this is what I've been telling people asking me about "Robsten":

Here's a portion of JUST ONE email I've received in November 2012: "...So it would mean a lot to me to know the truth, are they really together, or was this all made up for PR, did they really love each other? Was the cheating thing a PR stunt too, I really need to know the answers and if you think I'm nuts I'll understand. I have followed them, read the books, seen all the movies and then when the cheating thing came about It just flattened me..."

Response:

You're NOT NUTS... You're just wrapped up in an obsession that happens to be aching inside instead of being fun right now - it's not real, but it sure FEELS like it.

YES, they WERE in love before this scandal and YES, they ARE together and TRYING to work things out at the moment. Kristen DID get caught in those photos, but love is about SO MUCH MORE than just "not cheating" on someone. They LOVE each other, so they're trying. Whether they will STAY together or not after this is anybody's guess.

It would probably help ALOT if these damn paparazzi would leave them alone - that's PROBABLY what led to this mess in the first place. Can you IMAGINE having to live your life like they do? Kristen's reasons for cheating with Rupert had NOTHING to do with whether or not she loves Robert. And it's REALLY nice that Robert seems to be able to recognize that. Neither one seems to be willing to allow this mess to just end their relationship. Neither Robert NOR Kristen seem like the "type" of people who would put on a silly PR sideshow like this for their fans.

We all just need to hang in there until the gossip rags get tired of jerking us around with their stupid stories - don't read them! They're just meant to tug on your heartstrings, and they don't tell you what's actually going on - just what they WANT YOU TO THINK is going on.

Find a diversion or some way to express/vent your feelings and frustrations about this (that's how this blog got done, it was MY vent coming out of MY obsession)... Even write one or both of them a letter, if you think that will help - I have their addresses in this link along with a couple of helpful tricks to help with spinning emotions.

AND... you are WELCOME to write me as often as you like... Sometimes that's the kind of vent that is needed, just someone to listen to a bunch of stuff that sounds like nonsense. While your obsession may not be real, your feelings are - and STRONG feelings should always be given some TLC so they don't turn into ugly things. :)

You're going to be just FINE, girl... JUST like Robert & Kristen are, now. Breathe, relax... These strong feelings will fade before you realize it. Just keep taking care of you - your feelings ARE important whether they are real or not. :) (Yeah, this girl was a sweetheart and appreciated the as-accurate-as-any-of-us-can-get explanation - like I said, all some of us need is a PR vent/release so we can breathe again. ;)

YES, you fangirls ARE still welcome to send me an email in private if you like... I know not everyone wants to talk about their issues with the cold-hearted world right now. Catherine: auntmisfitchick@gmail.com ;)

Also, this is a link (below) to the much more recent timeline of the PR assault on Twilight Fans from 1/17/13-Present if you need more than this (it also includes alot of the old timeline). HOWEVER, this post became 'more than that' like this original last one did, and I haven't whittled it down for you. Keep in mind that it's going to be alot 'hotter'. You do not need to read it unless you need more convincing or like to argue ;)

1/17/13 w/ updates: Robsten Breakup Rumors
Includes PR Relief for Twilight Fans & Exposes
Hollywood's Longstanding & Misogynistic Smear
Campaign against Kristen Stewart, Robert Pattinson
and their MILLIONS of Twilight Fans across the globe!

to set these two professional actors
and ALL Celebrities FREE
by INSISTING Hollywood
REFORM it's OWN
Industry of Celebrity Mistreatment

3)
This post originally contains TIPS on upcoming events and personal fan encounters for Twihards who happen to be LUCKY enough to encounter ANY of our Favorite Character Actors & Actresses anytime SOON! Includes HELP TOOLS (at the bottom) for Fans with spinning emotions!!
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This is the "original start" of this post..  Needed only if you feel like you need more meds. :)

Update 1/10/13 - This is my response to some heated feedback about this post: This is ONLY UP HERE for those of you Twilight Fans who are STILL struggling with an intense Twilight addiction and are looking for help easing your way out of it.

This is NOT about "who's right or who's wrong" about Twilight - that argument is long over. It's meant to HELP not hurt - and it has helped far MORE than hurt peeps who have been struggling with their intense Twilight obsessions to read through this.

That involves telling you the TRUTH about Twilight from a few different angles - how it was written, what they did wrong when they published the FIRST book, how we started to fall in love with it and WHY, etc.

I'm sorry, but there is only ONE semi-fast way through obsessions, and that is to LOOK them right in the eye and FACE them headon - aside from "waiting them out". But, many Twilight Fans are dealing with seriously STUBBORN over-obsessions and alot of time has already gone by for them (and Hollywood has not exactly been helping).

Some of these TwiFangirls (young and young-at-heart) are becoming FRUSTRATED to the point of feeling like they're falling into a depression (that is dangerous for MANY of us tenderhearted Twihards)... That's why this post is here.

If YOU are FINE with Twilight - if you aren't unusually-deeply sad that BDp2 is over now; if your heart doesn't ever "race" when you think about "Robsten" or Bella Swan/Edward Cullen; if you DON'T feel like you have a constant static storm going on inside of you; if your mind DOESN'T have a problem focusing on other things - then you don't need to be in here reading this.

This isn't a WARNING about The Twilight Saga - not every fan of Twilight is overly-obsessed with it, and it's not like we can do anything about any of this stuff, anymore. But for SOME Twihards, it's a quasi-LIFE-PRESERVER, ha!

You're NOT CRAZY, TwiFANGIRLS! ;)


You've always been told that your Twilight obsessions won't hurt you... But, they lied. They hurt like hell, don't they? Not everyone "gets" this because not everyone is "this" obsessed - BUT, if you are so obsessed with Twilight to have been in pain over it at ANY point in time, you're NOT alone and you're NOT crazy, TwiFangirls!!

I KNOW that so many of you out there are MORE obsessed with Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson than is "the norm" for these kind of celebrity obsessions - this is 100% Stephenie Meyer's "professional" publisher's FAULT for IGNORING some of the most BASIC literary standards when they published these books - AND Summit Entertainment for willingly AND knowingly PERPETUATING these irresponsible Twilight OVER-obsessions all these YEARS.

YES, I can walk you through EXACTLY "what's wrong with Twilight", now.

While the obsession is not real, your FEELINGS ARE until the obsession in your mind wears off - which USUALLY happens slowly and harmlessly - unless you're being BASHED painfully in your OVER-obsession by Hollywood's gossip rags and papsmears again and again just because THEY CAN!

I've read your comments in Internetland about this "Robsten" cheating scandal and talked to some of you in email - but I already knew how some of you were feeling because of it, and so do all the other older girls out there who are playing dumb and acting like they don't know what we're talking about (see pic above) - they're all too enraged, embarrassed, frustrated, etc., to admit they did anything wrong.

NONE of us who have gone through the Twilight experience have gotten a ride NEARLY as COOL as Star Wars or Harry Potter. It's been NOTHING but an agonizing roller-coaster ride for many of us out there - WHY?!

Twilight is a very sore topic for many people, and everyone has an opinion about "what's wrong with it" - including diehard Twihards. You've heard so many of them say things like, "*I* was a FAN of Buffy the Vampire Slayer for YEARS and Twilight is JUST FINE the way it is!" and "I know there's something wrong with Twilight, but it's just a story".

But, it's so much more than "just a story" for many many people - younger, older, male, female, straight, bi, gay (thanks for turning me onto Twilight, Steve!) and every SHADE of GREY in between. (I've read "Men Addicted to Twilight" articles, ha!)

Most people can see that there is "something" wrong with Twilight, and many people have put in considerable amounts of time to prove how dysfunctional it has been written and published. But no one seems to want to get down to the heart of the matter - which is simple - Twilight's effects on BLOSSOMING HUMAN HEARTS like your's.

My problem isn't the silly, unbelievable, sexually-charged "story" in Twilight - it's the WAY it was "accidentally OVERLY-addictively" written; "professionally" published; then excused by grown, educated women (that would include the author of Twilight, Stephenie Meyer, who supposedly GRADUATED with a literary degree).

Yeah, even when you're an adult (maybe especially if you are), it's HARD to take responsibility for mistakes when you need to - and in my opinion,The Twilight Saga is one mistake that needs some TLC.


If we older Twilight Fans can get THIS obsessed over Twilight, the obsessions of YOUNG Twihards should have been totally EXCUSED and handled with Kid Gloves ALL THIS TIME since they are so "accidentally" intense:



HELP - not TRAMPIRE should have been the WORLD's response to your OBVIOUS and senselessly-induced PAIN when those cheating pictures of Kristen were published!

But, no one seems to give a sh*t about your tender hearts, do they, Twihards? As long as no one can see any "real, messy blood" gushing from a "real" flesh wound, you're FINE.

Obsessions don't just fade away after you finish reading the book, watch the movie - OR when "professional" paparazzi and gossip magazines take it upon themselves to use their expertise to KNOCK you partially OUT of your INTENSE Twilight obsessions with such MEAN-SPIRITED GLEE!

I have a particularly SOFT SPOT for girls who have to live with these kind of TwiMoms - as well as for those of you out there who don't have anyone to talk to about this stuff. I have this soft spot because I strongly relate to you and I KNOW you're STILL out there feeling like sh*t about all this.

During all my research, not only have I come across all the excessive-bashing Hollywood has ALWAYS indulged in against Twilight Fans USING Kristen and/or Robert to make their pathetic pennies - but, I've SEEN all those HATEFUL comments that SOME (usually older, but not always) Twihards have JUDGED Kristen with - LONG BEFORE this silly scandal hit the fan; AND I've seen all those comments from TwiFangirls who obviously OVERLY-love her DEFENDING her (and Robert sometimes) over and over again out there.

I've actually been sticking up for Kristen Stewart for a LONG DAMN TIME - as seen in my "Nothing But LOVE for Our Beloved Twilight Character Actors" post, ha!

Most people think I'm pretty crazy for getting "this" worked up over Twilight. But TWO things happened to cause this:

1) After I realized there was something wrong with Twilight, I had to find out WHY it was like this - so I started doing research on it. (Yes, I TRIED to read it, ha!) I went to all kinds of different websites, watched dozens of YouTube video rants, and read blog post after article after interview after review on this subject (both good AND bad) for about a year - and LOTS of FanFiction, too!!

WHY for a YEAR, was I really THAT crazy over Twilight that I couldn't get over it in a YEAR?!

No... I just kept coming across all those young (and older!) Twilight Fans who were sad and heartbroken (like me!) about the unexpected and unbelievable "Vampire" ending of Breaking Dawn after it was first published in 2008.

Many fans (especially younger ones) were frustrated that NO ONE would LISTEN to their issues - and Twihards who did, MANY of them OLDER - told these YOUNG peeps that THEY were the ones who were overly-obsessed and wrong about all the dysfunction within Twilight: Breaking Dawn.

This in and of itself is F*CKED UP!! When GROWN-UPS are telling YOUNG KIDS they are WRONG about this story (that was SUPPOSEDLY written FOR THEM) - when they OBVIOUSLY were NOT wrong... Yeah, pretty discombobulated!

This is also WHY I know so much about what's going on with Kristen and Robert's various PR SPINS around the game of life wheel. I've been watching it for awhile now, from a COMPLETELY different perspective than most of you. And, without realizing it, I was learning ALOT about "what Hollywood was doing to them - AND us" without really meaning to pay attention to it. It has been sort of a side-effect of my doing research on The Twilight Saga (I'm one of those read-the-comments-at-the-end-of-article hounds, ha!)

2) I was DONE with the other blog when this whole "Robsten" publicity scandal came down...

Every single Twihard out there who went through this maddening PR assault in a PAINFUL, internal, static-infested way NOW KNOWS what it felt like to be DEBUNKED from Twilight: Breaking Dawn - because THAT is EXACTLY what it FELT LIKE for US FANS (to varying degrees) who ALSO LOVED this silly saga in 2008/2009 JUST like YOU when Twilight was just beginning to come out in movie form.

We were RUDELY dislodged from our seemingly HAPPY OBSESSIONS by the dysfunction embedded THROUGHOUT this saga - not just in Breaking Dawn. And THEN these frustrated Twilight Fans had to WATCH as the author of these books and her money-grubbing "professional" Twilight handlers continued to force this story on IT's OWN BROKEN FANBASE; for some reason, CATERING to "the ones" who supported Stephenie Meyer's silly sexual fantasy that she left GLARING throughout her "pretty fairytale".

They got away with DOING that BECAUSE many of you didn't know about it and couldn't SEE it like the rest of the world who were familiar with Vampires COULD - peeps NOT obsessed with Twilight's Vamps.

HOW MANY TIMES have YOU defended The Twilight Saga or ANY of your favorite character actors and actresses from some idiot who is making fun of it?

You have had to DO THAT because THEY SEE MORE in Twilight that the author NEVER MEANT to be in there (how do you think "50 Shades of Grey" was inspired by Twilight?!!) - because she was writing about Vampires AND the Quileute Tribe without utilizing one of the most BASIC forms of literary disciplines - RESEARCH!! (Yes, I can and will explain this as well as WHY Twilight is such an addictive READ to you in detail if you keep reading.)

The other entire blog was written for TWO MAIN REASONS - 1) it DEFINITELY concerned me that all these previous Twilight FAN'S VALID issues had been IGNORED by Stephenie Meyer and her "professional" Twilight handlers; and 2) there were ALSO obviously MANY of you "out here" - both young and older - who were OVERLY-obsessed with The Twilight Saga and NOBODY seemed to care at all...

While estranged Twilight Fans may have been in some emotional angst for awhile in 2008/2009 because of the way Twilight and Breaking Dawn was written - so many of you out there have LOVED this story for alot longer and are buried MUCH deeper in your not-so-harmless obsessions!

Yeah, *I* was concerned about all you YOUNG Twihards LONG BEFORE this SENSELESS PR stunt happened!! (In fact, I was utterly dumbstruck for awhile that these papsmears had done something so damn STUPID to your obviously OVER-obsessing HEARTS just before you were getting ready to watch the HAPPY ENDING in your favorite fairytale - MEAN, MUCH?!)

NO ONE could have EVER imagined that this PR cheating scandal would take place... In fact, it put a huge dampener on my other blog because frankly, I COULDN'T ENJOY IT.

Twilight over-addictions were PLAINLY VISIBLE and EXPOSED for absolutely everyone to see and MAKE FUN OF... I had practically been proven RIGHT on my blog and the thought actually crossed my mind, "Well JEEZ, I didn't mean to be THAT RIGHT about things."

But everybody was heartbroken and CRYING - it's a little hard to CELEBRATE that you're RIGHT about ANYTHING under those circumstances!!

BEFORE, I was worried about your over-obsessions with Twilight because so MANY of you seemed OVERLY-emotionally-invested and so preoccupied with it. Many of you were/are losing TOO MUCH valuable time from your REAL lives.

On TOP of that, allowing yourself to become so sucked into something like Twilight at your age (I'm not talking about "normal" teenage obsessions, here); is a kind of drug that is very difficult to "give up".

How HARD has this obsession been for you to get past? That will NEVER change... And if you become accustomed to feeling this way, you'll have a hard time "wanting to feel any other way". Living life through an obsession can become ONE BAD HABIT AFTER ANOTHER and before you know it...

A HUGE chunk of your life is GONE, just like DRUGS.

At first these Twilight addictions were FUN... But then Hollywood started dragging us all down into their dark dungeons, beating our hearts until they BLEED.

Sure, you will eventually move past it... But, what about your real lives until then? If you're a middle-aged misfit chick like me, this IS my life (for awhile) and WHO CARES, ha?!! But for a student trying to get through school or college or just doing things like making friends and hanging out - in my opinion, Twilight was "too much obsession" to be directed at ENDEARINGLY-impressionable young adults. (NONE of you should be insulted by that AT ALL - that's what you're supposed to be at this point in your blossoming lives!!)

I was also worried that you would have a hard time moving beyond your obsessions AFTER BDp2 came out. With no more Twilight in site - THAT in and of itself would probably have been causing you Twihards some pain by now, anyway. But theoretically, that's ALL you would have had to deal with.

Here's an excerpt from the link above that I wrote more than a YEAR AGO:

But, what about those girls out there who are still so stuck in this muck? I think it's one of the reasons why we older girls refuse to question the storyline of Twilight any further. We're almost afraid to look directly at it. We can "feel" that something isn't right about it; but what if we see something else other than the beautiful fairytale that we have built up inside our minds? Some of us might not be able to handle it - truly. (NONE of us could have EVER imagined this "Robsten" cheating scandal happening - and look what SOME Twilight Fans who "can't handle it" are saying!!)

And I know you know what I mean, even if you're "not in this place", now; you probably have been...

You don't quite feel right without at least one helping of Twilight every day in some form or another... It calls to you, you crave it. Edward Cullen is your own personal brand of Heroin in your head, eating through your life like meth.

You have a hard time thinking about anything else, sometimes. It is nearly impossible for you to hide your obsession from anyone; and you feel as intoxicated as Bella was with Edward in that one Twilight book scene, every time you watch Twilight - and you weren't even there.

In fact, she wasn't either - she's not real.

But you read this story and watch the movie, and this is how it makes you feel... stroking you inside like a warm, gentle breeze with Edward Cullen sparkling forever by your side in the sun, caressing you both inside and out...

Pay attention to it. It feels real, doesn't it?

Tell me again that it's an innocent little story that has no effect on our lives - WHY would you ever want to LEAVE it?!

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THAT'S WHY I picked the old blog back up for awhile when Kristen's cheating photos were published. I had been reading AND writing about how OVERLY-obsessed so many people were with Twilight for almost a year when it happened; and I KNEW many of you out there were in some semi-serious internal pain and turmoil over it - you HAD to be (and we SAW it, didn't we?), and SOME of you STILL ARE.

Stephenie Meyer's accidentally-obsessive, amateur "writing style" AND unresearched, unbelievable storyline CAUSED many of her fans varying degrees of PAIN in 2008 when she published Breaking Dawn (not to mention a huge DIVISION in her fanbase and the WORLD!!); AND now in 2012 she can also take credit for CAUSING you Twihards EXTRA senseless, PREVENTABLE emotional pain because of this issue since she never took responsibility for all the obvious dysfunction in her books to begin with when she SHOULD have - like an ADULT.

And for some STRANGE reason... NO ONE held Stephenie Meyer OR her supposedly "professional" publishers accountable for ANY of it!!

WHY couldn't she just come out and admit to everything in 2008 when her fans called her out? I can think of a few reasons - pride, embarrassment, humiliation, etc. PLUS, since she had gotten so many people OVERLY-addicted to Twilight by THAT time, ANYWAY - it's not like ANY of them (probably some of you that I'm talking to, ha!) were in a frame of mind to "do the right thing" and push Twilight (or Edward Cullen) away at the time.

We can ALL SEE how badly Stephenie Meyer's books ARE written... and yet, she kept her head in the clouds believing that she had somehow thought up something UNIQUE and beautiful - as opposed to LAME and OFFENSIVE to her WORLD audience.

That's why people have always made fun of your pretty fairytale, girls!! It's ONLY a "pretty story" if you don't know much about Vampires (OR IF you are obsessed with Stephenie's irrelevant version of them) - or the REAL Quileute Tribe (with a beautiful, UNIQUE culture Stephenie managed to treat with such INCREDIBLE disrespect), for that matter.

And really... We shouldn't have to be thinking about this stuff. Books that are "professionally" published should be up to certain BASIC literary standards BEFORE they are published. There should have NEVER BEEN this kind of DEBATE over The Twilight Saga - and IF it had been published by RESPONSIBLE "professionals", there wouldn't be one!!

Can you imagine the ENTIRE WORLD loving Twilight like they do Star Wars and Harry Potter, LoL?!

Wanna hear something really funny? MANY people who agree with me on my issues with Twilight will NOT read all the way through my other blog, consider it or take it seriously BECAUSE it STICKS UP for KRISTEN, LoL! The day I realized that (via a couple email exchanges and then doing MORE research on "Anti-Twilight" websites) - I was flabbergasted!!

Kristen's naughty little rendevouz that just HAPPENED to be caught on camera UNDERHANDEDLY by "professional" Hollywood Paparazzi JUST so they could publish the pictures to MAKE MONEY off the TEARS of YOUNG GIRLS - has no-doubt been a FUN way for Twilight-Haters to BASH at Twilight, through Kristen!!

But for you... Those of you who went through this Robsten publicity stunt in a painful way, I KNOW there are more than a few of you still out there of ALL ages - both young and young-at-heart; who could really use a healthy dose of reason and logic for your irresponsibly "toyed with" brains.

Here are a few things that might help. Keep in mind that everyone is different - you have to pay attention to your own personal instincts and intuition to tell if something is helping you or not. That's why I'm giving you a few options, some of you need some things while others of you need something else, ha! (You saw the first three of these at the top.)

4) There is ALOT of Twilight FanFiction out there and SOME of it is really good! SOMETIMES reading Twilight FanFiction can help to gently slide you out of your obsession IF you haven't already been reading it all this time. If you've been reading it for awhile now, you're already used to people reshaping the characters and storylines.

But, if you don't usually read it... It's kind of like the advice they give to smokers who are trying to stop smoking - start smoking a different brand or a "lighter" cigarette. The change will make you want to quit easier because it won't be "what you're used to".

Additionally, IF you're someone who needs to see Twilight written/explained in a BELIEVABLE way - if maybe for no other reason than to prove to you that it could have been done - check out *my* FanFiction rewrite, "Twilight: ReVamped and ReWolfed".

I didn't write it "for me". I wrote it so that everyone could see how Twilight could have been WHILE also sticking as CLOSE to Stephenie's pretty fairytale that I could. It's actually only a SUMMARY of all four books (and it includes a critique/review as I'm writing so you can see why I made the changes I did) with just the first chapter written as complete to give you a "foundation" - takes a couple hours to read through it all.

I'm inserting part of a comment from a TwiMOM here so those of you who are clueless about this stuff can SEE that this rewrite of Twilight might be worth your time. ;)

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I love your blog and the rewrite, I felt like you have given the characters depth and a new life (gosh *warm fuzzies* thank you!!)... I am even letting my daughter read it with me because its a good story that is appropriate for kids to read and she LOVES LOVES LOVES IT! Just as much as I do! I think what you have written is loving and responsible to the characters and fans, it is well though out, relevant, and I am more than sure (although I'm not there yet) in the reWolfed version you will be more respectful of the Quilette tribe. As a woman of Native American decent (Crow Indians) I was totally appalled by what SM did to their stories and history and her portrayal of them. SHAME ON YOU STEPHENIE MEYER! I hope she does see your blog and rewrite and is ashamed of herself and apologizes to us all and then does the right thing and gives the Quilette Tribe compensation for the movies success and additional compensation for defamation of character, because legally that's what she did she took a beautiful and rich history and culture and turned it into shirtless meathead living in shacks! Its deplorable!...).

...On an unrelated note your rewrite has inspired my own creativity and I am finally picking up on finishing an old story I had started (come to think of it I last wrote in 2009 which was around the time I started reading the Twilight saga..... wonder if that explains it. .... lol)

5) This article is my most recent and complete explanation regarding how Twilight's obsessions developed and progressedThis helps (some people) unravel their obsessions IF they aren't too mad with me to begin with. Once you realize that I'm NOT a MONSTER, all this stuff is easier to digest.

This article INCLUDES how so many people became extra-obsessed over our FAVORITE actress and actor as opposed to JUST the characters of Bella Swan and Edward Cullen, as well as links to WHY Twilight is such an addictive READ.

If this post does nothing else, it gives us all a REASON to FORGIVE overly-obsessed Twihards out there who just CAN'T get a grip. This alone makes ALOT of Twilight Fans who have read this post feel better.

And this article goes into the details of these dumb 'robsten' PR Assaults.  ;)

Not everything is about "our obsession" - MOST of your obsessions out there are FINE. It's the PAIN that comes from seeing your favorite fairytale and favorite actress and actor being so tormented by your OWN Twihard Sisters and the world that is HARSH.

Yeah, being able to SEE WHY so many other girls are and have ALWAYS BEEN so nuts and downright ABUSIVE because of their Twilight over-obsession can help ALOT. ;)

BTW, if you're worried about this post "changing" the way you feel about Twilight - that's why alot of peeps don't read through this (I've been told by some who eventually did) - we LIKE the way we feel about this pretty fairytale and ALL this "Robsten" stuff is over now, why bother with it?

SOME Twilight Fans don't need to read through it...
But IF you are preoccupied about Robert Pattinson and/or Kristen Stewart to the point that it frustrates you STILL (no, that would NOT be unusual for obsessions this intense that are ALSO constantly being bashed at by Hollywood's gossip rags and papsmears); THAT's why you would read through this.

And, it's Okay... I'm speaking from personal experience here and I've been TOLD by peeps who have read through this before you... It kind of feels like "finally getting a joke" when you realize why Twilight is so seductive. It feels like a vent/release/relief are the most commonly-used words. ;)

You may feel "a little weird" about Twilight and/or Robsten for awhile afterwards - depending on what your personal obsessions were wrapped around. But it doesn't take long for those "adjustment" feelings to waft away (and for most Twihards they have NOT been painful - just a little uncomfortable).

...And all you're left with are the warm, sweet memories of "what Twilight is/was for you" WITHOUT all the internal static incessantly disrupting your heart and mind.

I KNOW this is true, because I could NEVER have rewritten The Twilight Saga the way I did AFTER I knew about everything that was wrong with it - without STILL LOVING IT!!

I still do and I'm sure a part of me always will... Like I still love "The Outsiders" and "Are You There, God? It's Me, Margaret", ha!


to set these two professional actors
and ALL Celebrities FREE
by INSISTING Hollywood
REFORM it's OWN
Industry of Celebrity Mistreatment
 
Please feel free to leave your own helpful comments below - especially if you have any other helpful advice on dealing with the incessant internal static some Twihards are still dealing with. If you have something MEAN or obnoxious to say - visit my other blog, for that. This place is for understanding and HELP.